
{"id":9601,"date":"2017-04-29T18:16:08","date_gmt":"2017-04-29T18:16:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/?p=9601"},"modified":"2017-04-29T18:31:46","modified_gmt":"2017-04-29T18:31:46","slug":"the-nicest-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/2017\/04\/the-nicest-thing\/","title":{"rendered":"The nicest thing . . ."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Birdie-\u00a9-Ellen-Wade-Beals-2017.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-9602\" src=\"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Birdie-\u00a9-Ellen-Wade-Beals-2017-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Birdie \u00a9 Ellen Wade Beals, 2017\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a><strong>Hello friends<\/strong> &#8212; Hope April has treated you well and that May is even kinder.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re experiencing a cold snap here, which made me think I should write a poem about a spring chill.\u00a0 What are you thinking about these days?<\/p>\n<p>I know I am behind the times sometimes but I came across something from 2013 that is as pertinent today &#8212; it&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/6thfloor.blogs.nytimes.com\/2013\/07\/31\/george-saunderss-advice-to-graduates\/?_r=0\" target=\"_blank\">&#8220;<strong>George Saunders&#8217;s Advice to Graduates&#8221;<\/strong> by <strong>Joel Lovell<\/strong> in <em><strong>The New York Times<\/strong> <\/em><\/a>from July 31, 2013.\u00a0 (And I&#8217;m not just saying\u00a0 you should read it because he mentions a girl named Ellen.). One thing <a href=\"http:\/\/www.georgesaundersbooks.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>George Saunders<\/strong> <\/a>says that resonates:<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>&#8220;What I regret most in my life are <i>failures of kindness.&#8221;<\/i><\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>This made me think about how much I value kindness, a virtue that is easily overlooked and sometimes discounted. It inspired me that George Saunders believes in kindness and espouses the practice of it, as he says: &#8220;It\u2019s a little facile, maybe, and certainly hard to implement, but I\u2019d say, as a goal in life, you could do worse than: <strong><i>Try to be kinder.&#8221;<\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now I am off to spoil myself with crossword puzzles and cooking shows.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Peace, love, and solace<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_9603\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9603\" style=\"width: 444px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Chili-heartbreak-\u00a9-Ellen-Wade-Beals-2017.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-9603 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Chili-heartbreak-\u00a9-Ellen-Wade-Beals-2017.jpg\" alt=\"Chili &amp; heartbreak \u00a9 Ellen Wade Beals, 2017\" width=\"444\" height=\"598\" srcset=\"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Chili-heartbreak-\u00a9-Ellen-Wade-Beals-2017.jpg 444w, https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/Chili-heartbreak-\u00a9-Ellen-Wade-Beals-2017-223x300.jpg 223w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 444px) 100vw, 444px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9603\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Chili &amp; heartbreak \u00a9 Ellen Wade Beals, 2017<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hello friends &#8212; Hope April has treated you well and that May is even kinder. We&#8217;re experiencing a cold snap here, which made me think I should write a poem about a spring chill.\u00a0 What are you thinking about these days? I know I am behind the times sometimes but I came across something from [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[3251,386,3253,12,3249,3250,3252,3023,39,13,7,16,32],"class_list":{"0":"post-9601","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-uncategorized","7":"tag-being-kind","8":"tag-chicago","9":"tag-chili-heartbreak","10":"tag-ellen-wade-beals","11":"tag-george-saunders","12":"tag-george-saunderss-advice-to-graduates","13":"tag-importance-of-kindness","14":"tag-kindness","15":"tag-photography","16":"tag-poetry","17":"tag-solace","18":"tag-solace-in-so-many-words","19":"tag-weighed-words","20":"entry","21":"has-post-thumbnail"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9601","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9601"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9601\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9611,"href":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9601\/revisions\/9611"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9601"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9601"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/solaceinabook.com\/site\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9601"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}